He seems to be putting his friends and video games before me...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. The first month was amazing. He was super cute, and sweet but lately (after we started having sex) he's been putting his friends and his video games before us and our relationship. I don't know ...
A. 13 November 2008: just sit down with a bar of chocolate. pig out on it and talk to him just say something like "is it alright if we spend more time together" even suggest u join in the video games if that works (i did, it worked for me), if not then i will think of ... (read in full...)
Did he like his present?
Q. 1 month ago i gave my ex a b-day present it was a dvd, but he hasn't said anything about it i really wanna do if he liked it or not. We broke up b4 i gave him da prezzie, the problem is he's da type of guy dat keeps his feelings 2 himself he won't ...
A. 13 November 2008: this might have been better on the questions part, but still...
find out via a friend if he likes it or drop REALLY subtle hints?... (read in full...)
My best guy friend keeps asking me out.
Q. My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends and don't want to ruin our friendship. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to be the b...
A. 13 November 2008: okay don't let your boyfriend kill him- tad extreme but why don't you sit him down, tell him that you like someone else and that you can't hurt him and wouldn't. you understand his feelings but need him to move on (don't need to use my words just an ... (read in full...)
What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?
Q. hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...
A. 9 November 2008: a box full of bits and pieces that he would like (smellies, clothes etc) photobook of all your memories? only a couple of ideas xx... (read in full...)
How can I make my man juice taste better?
Q. My gf loves it when I *** on her boobs but lately she has wanted Me to lick it off of her. I tried it and it was nasty. How can I make my *** taste better?...
A. 7 November 2008: saw on a site not to eat red meat if that helps, not sure if its true or not though... (read in full...)
Is he a normal size?
Q. My boyfreinds penis is 18 cm long when it is hard...I was wondering if that is big or small? I dont really care has i think he is perfect but I am just curious;) Hope someone can give me an answer...
A. 3 November 2008: hey :) 18cm is about 7 inches...so yeah thats quite big :) remmeber its not all about the penis however!! :) x... (read in full...)
Poll Question: How was your first school relationship?
Q. Just a short Poll question: When was your first high school relationship, how long did it last? Just want to know because i'm 16, and i've always been single, haven't experienced ANYTHING with a guy, no kissing, nothing! The furthest i've gone...
A. 2 November 2008: first proper relationship at 15, lasted six and a half weeks cause the guy wasn't that nice. 16 now and with my current boyfriend almost six months :)
and in reply to your other question- prob good cause then your on an even balance, there wo... (read in full...)
Condom or the pill?
Q. Soo... umm... I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and shes already discussed with me about having sex, but shes a virgin and soo am I, but I'm not quite sure whats the best thing to do, bucause she doesnt want me to use a condom, she ...
A. 20 October 2008: id say go double dutch, use both at least then it increases your chances of not being pregnant...obviously once she is sorted with the pill you could consider not using condoms but until then i wouldn't recommend it... (read in full...)
How can I stop saying profanities all the time?
Q. I have an issue. I swear very badly when I get angry. I say bas**** very easily. How do I get out of this habit....
A. 20 October 2008: i end up mixing the words together and coming out with really random rubbish that my friends laugh at me for...
my latest invention:
follocks :P
its genius it may work
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Do I need consent from my mum at age 16 to go on the pill? I don't want her to know!
Q. I am with my bf for a year and a half and now we have decided that I will go on the Pill. Is there any way i can do this without my mum finding out? ...
A. 20 October 2008: I was on it when I was 14 due to some issues that happened during that summer. My mother never knew about it. Would advise you tell ehr in case she finds out and gets the wrong end of the stick like mine did!
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Why is it hard for parents to let a teenager date?
Q. why do you think its so hard for parents to let a 16 year old date? ...
A. 10 October 2008: because they are scared you are going to get hurt/ don't want you to grow up. think those are two of the main reasons
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Does this make me a slag or something?
Q. im 13 but i look way older. And the other day a guy came and started talking to me and my mate. He thought i was his age and was asking which college i attended. i said i didnt go to college but he didnt believe me. He asked for my number and my ...
A. 10 October 2008: okay well i'd definetely say be more careful in the future because otherwise you will get hurt/ a name for yourself i know its harsh and im sorry to be blunt but you need ot be careful, i know how bitchy girls can get so i just want you to be ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 25 September 2008: 16 year old student doing wayyy too many gcses and getting ready for college with a stupid paper round :) gotta love it :D
gone through a lot so can help i think with more teenage issues (as going through it- been there done that is the phrase t... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!
Q. i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come ...
A. 22 September 2008: my boyfriend had them, and he was cute with them on!
i've currently got them for another 6 months - a year depending on how it goes. it might not take 2 years once uve got them on, mine are going better than expected!
don'tworry about it and trus... (read in full...)
Techniques on how to cover blemishes by using make up?
Q. Im 17 almost 18 and really need help in the make up department.I get blemishes like every other teenager and untill i finally get rid of them i thought that i could mabye improve my confidence with make up.Problem is i don't have any idea which is ...
A. 16 September 2008: okay i wouldnt use a foundation because that can clog up the skin even further, try using just a concealer or a cover up stick. i would recommend that you try something that does everything you want.I personally use an avon product in the clearskin ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my feelings to change this often?
Q. Is it normal for me to have been in a 9 month relationship and stop liking him after 5 months but the 6th month love him and 7th hate him? Is it also normal that I can one day love someone and the next just dog them and have no remorse for what I ...
A. 16 September 2008: its normal for teenagers to go through this, its just your emotions changing and being hormonal as well probarbly isn't helping. if your still with your boyfriend it does mean that he is committed you need to work out what u want though...
Thing... (read in full...)
I'm scared to let lads touch me or get close to me-is this abnormal?
Q. This is kind of a sensitive question but one i really need help with! well my problem is that im scared to let lads touch me or get close to me and i really dont know why! im not scared of lads - just letting them see my body and touch me! im ...
A. 13 September 2008: it sounds like a self confidence issue to me, your scared to let lads close to you in case they want more maybe?
just trust yourself and obviously know when to say no.
Good luck :)... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend and I are drifting apart. I don't know what to do, Help!
Q. sometimes i feel as if my boyfriend for a year and i are emotionally drifting apart. i no longer get butterflies when i'm around him and there are other people that i call first when i'm bored. i dont know if it's just because we're growing into ...
A. 13 September 2008: why don't you try doing something new together (like one of those experience packs you can buy) or a romantic meal just to see if the spark is still there...
If not then see how it goes and see how you feel
Good Luck
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A male friend of mine told me he likes me, but I don't like him back. Things are weird between us, how do we go about just being friends?
Q. hello a boy freind of mine told me he likes me.but i dont like him in that way because i like another.(which he already knew).i feel a bit weird around him now and dont really want to talk to him much because i would feel weird. how can i try a...
A. 13 September 2008: talk to him, sit him down and just say something along the lines of " im sorry but i can't let you hurt yourself by fancying me, i do fancy someone else, we can stop talking if it helps" (obviously thats just off the top of my head but something ... (read in full...)
How often is it okay to text her?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and still in school, but have a massive crush on a girl in my year. I think about her all the time..and I was wondering how often it is ok to text her? Is once a night to much? She never blows me off and always seems to give in...
A. 13 September 2008: well if your close i don't see why a text a night is a problem, i always get a cute text just before i go to bed from my boyfriend. just ask her if she is okay with it if its worrying you
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How do birth control pills work and when can I have sex?
Q. so this may be a stupid question but yeah so i never used birth control before and im starting to use it, but how many times can you have sex after you take all the pills?! is it only effective once?! ...
A. 13 September 2008: depending on the type you get you will either get a pack of 21 or 28 tablets, with 21 you take them and have a week off for your period, 28 and you go straight through and during your "placebo" week you will bleed. This is better if you don't want ... (read in full...)
What do I get him for Christmas? I need ideas!
Q. Hey!! I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend of a year [on and off] is turning 19.I know it's a little too soon to be thinking about Christmas but I really don't know what to get him.This is our first Christmas together and he told me to just ...
A. 11 September 2008: okay my boyfriends birthday is christmas day so, hoping he doesnt read this :P im doing like a box full of stuff thats to do with us and he would like, so because his nickname is sheep theres a cuddly sheep going in, he likes fashion so a new pair ... (read in full...)
How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?
Q. I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular gro...
A. 30 August 2008: okay same position can give it to you straightish :P
keep the neutrality between all groups i have to say it can come in handy a lot if one group gets into a fight with another etc. it won't matter in ten years time because the people you are hang... (read in full...)
My best friend is jealous because the guy we both like seems to notice me more...
Q. okay its about friendship. But let me describe myself. I would say i'm rather good looking, reasonable fashion sense, quite intelligent and quite popular. So here's the problem. My best friend zoey(not her real name)has a crush on the same guy as ...
A. 25 August 2008: just talk to her see what the problem is, if it is a jealousy issue it needs to be sorted as you both can't go on the way you are its just making you both unhappy. if you do sit her down try and find a compromise (:
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I can't live with my mam and I'm getting depressed. Should I keep trying to get my job back at a holiday park?
Q. i recently worked away at a holiday park for five month and me and my boyfirend packed in because i was getting depressed there, a few weeks later we both decided we wanted to go back as we missed it, we got out jobs back and just before we went ...
A. 25 August 2008: you need to sit your mum down, tell her how you feel about all of this, your old enough (well judging by how you present yourself) to decide whats right and wrong for you. You will need a job eventually so yes it could be a gd idea to go get this ... (read in full...)
Out of a relationship into another, right or wrong ?
Q. isit ok to go straight out of a serious relationship into another, personally i feel that theres nothing wrong with it but you must make sure your ready to be into another serious relationship, but id like your opinion please give me your awnsers...
A. 12 August 2008: I've done it before, yeah it made me a few enemies but I'm happier for it and I feel (maybe selfishly) that thats the best way forward
Hope that helps
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Am I allowed to masterbate, even when I have a boyfriend?
Q. I feel horny all the time but i have a boyfriend am i supposed to use him for my sexual pleasure? Or do people in relationships masterbate too? Im only 15 btw...
A. 11 August 2008: Have a balance of both.... (read in full...)
I had a piercing done 3 days ago, how long do I have to clean it, days, weeks, months or forever?
Q. i had a piercing done 3 days ago i am wondering how long do i have to keep cleaning it for? is it days, weeks, months or all the time cheers x...
A. 5 August 2008: i was cleaning mine every day for 6 weeks on both piercings (ears) and now do it once every two days at least
bit of a health freak tbh :P
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Are tampons or pads better for periods?
Q. Hey I was wondering r tampons or pads better for periods? I was going to try using a tampon for the first time, but the instructions said only use it if it's a moderate period. I happen to be having a heavy period. I'm afraid to use tampons though, ...
A. 31 July 2008: with mine because i have long ones i mix and match...its usually pads for the first 2-3 days because i am so heavy...and then down to tampons...although as the flow gets lighter do change the sizing coz otherwise it will hurt if you do use them
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Irregular period question...
Q. Is it normal for there to not really be any pattern to the times when u get your period? Because I really can't find anything that's close to a pattern and I don't want anything to be wrong with me. I've never done ANYTHING that would cause my ...
A. 30 July 2008: this is completely fine (: don't worry cause that can set it off without you realising mine are always irregular. but what i recommend is that you work out the difference between the periods day wise and mark it on the first day of ur period in a ... (read in full...)
I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend (but I HATE pink). Any advice?
Q. Hi. I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend but I don't know how. I'm 22 so i should know but I don't. Usually I wear jeans and t shirts sometimes a skirt but I look really fat and horrible and don't feel at all girly. I'm a size 14/16 and ...
A. 21 July 2008: okay
wear a really nice floaty skirt and a nice top (this is working for me today. my boyfriend is loving it ) it doesn't have to be really long, but something patterned or floaty. don't try to hide your body!!!!
hope this helps (:... (read in full...)
I'm dreading his last day but what can I do?
Q. Ive been mates with a lad now for just over two years and I really really really like him. Not just as a mate...I think Ive fallen for him too. Hes in my thoughts CONSTANTLY, I stay awake thinking of him at night, everything about him is perfect to ...
A. 20 July 2008: I know it may sound cheesy and even immature but why not give him a letter the day before he goes, tell him to open it once he gets there and for him to contact u as soon as hes done. In the letter u tell him how u feel even how much it hurts, tell ... (read in full...)
What can I do to see if this boy likes me?
Q. I've liked a boy for quite a while and we've become quite good friends now. At first we didn't get on that well but now all of a sudden he's been really nice to me and asked me for hugs and stuff like that. I don't know if he likes me or not and ...
A. 20 July 2008: Have you got his msn or bebo (something like this?) this would be the first way of contact and working it out. Get to know him, obviously if hes having deep conversations and your getting along pretty well I would say there is something there
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Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: My boyfriend loves my curves don't worry about your size. Bigger is definetely beautiful (:
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Would you cheat on a boat with George Clooney?
Q. If you were married and knew it was going to be the end of the world and you were on a boat with George Clooney, would you cheat? What movie star would get you to cheat?...
A. 15 July 2008: Why George Clooney?
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How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 15 July 2008: my boyfriend is best friends with my ex :P (see thats a good starting point!)
we met up like loads. i worked out my ex wasn't what i wanted...found out my current boyfriend liked me. we waited and ended up asking each other out at the same time :)
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I'm auditioning for a play, any advice to calm down nerves?
Q. Hey, It's not a relationship problem but I was wondering whether anyone had any advice for calming nerves and to feel confident as I'm auditioning for Les Miserables this evening!! Any advice would be great! ...
A. 12 July 2008: deep breathing and believeing in yourself can help wonders :)... (read in full...)
How do I get her to stop worrying about my adolescent sexual experiences??
Q. Hi I've been with my gf for 2 years now, I love her to death. She is the second woman I have ever slept with, the first was my girlfriend that I had between the ages of 13 and 16 (on and off, mostly off- I dumped her for good a few weeks after I ...
A. 12 July 2008: just sit her down one day and tell her how you feel and what happened. she should trust you and if she doesn't this may need to be addressed.
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Is there a particular age that a woman, is assumed to be sexually active or not a virgin?
Q. At what age is it assumed a woman is sexually active? For men, is it a turn off to find out a woman is a virgin? Especially, of those men that are of mature age? For women, how old were some of you when you lost your virginity? What sort of pre...
A. 12 July 2008: i would agree with lotus mama but 12-13 is an insane age. i was slightly more sensible and lost it just after my 15th birthday. and there were no pressures.... (read in full...)
I am in need of a website, or magazine, which show different hairstyles, can anyone help me, thanks?
Q. i really want to get a new hairstyle. i have been growing my hair for quite sometime and am wondering weather or not i now want long hair. i dont really have a clue about boys hairstyles aorund my age and have been trying to find a website or mag...
A. 11 July 2008: google it. go through different rock magazines, female magazines anything you can go through. google and any hair stylists will have some. can i recommend you not go to extreme however- school rules and all that
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